From time to time I post thought provoking, conversation starters on my social networking sites. This was one I posted on my Facebook page and received some interesting feedback. I say my questions are general but we all know they come from life experiences, specifically my life….
So my question was this “ do you think a long term relationship/marriage can last if you just got out of a long term relationship/marriage?”
The responses I received were expected but its funny how different men and women think. As you can probably guess all of the women said no, it’s not likely it will work out. The person that was in the relationship needs time to heal and prepare themselves for the next relationship.
And all of my men said yes it can work, some gave examples of how it did work for them and what the heck do they need to heal for? Most likely the relationship was over and they became detached before the break up became official.
Overall, a very interesting conversation came from that status. Now in my situation I would love to think this guy is ready for another serious relationship but through conversation and seeing some of his actions this man is still hurt, and re living the past. The pain of a woman that he used to love hurting him is too much to let go. And that is what’s stopping him from being happy with someone who really cares.
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