Sometimes I like to pose questions on my Facebook page to get reactions to some real life scenarios that I know that's going on.
In this one scenario this Guy told his woman while they were dating that he was not attracted to big women, and he would not stay around if she fell outside of the weight range he thought was acceptable for her height. The woman was ok with this because at the time she was a nice size that was pleasing to him. Time goes on, he ask her to to marry him and she says yes.... The guy reminds the woman of his physical preference and again tells her I don't like big women. All you have to do is take care of the house and maintain your weight. I'll Take care of everything else including car notes insurance, mortgage/rent, utilities,groceries and I'll even put some cash in your pocket if needed. The woman again agrees to the terms. She goes to work, takes care of the house and maintains her weight. A few years into the marriage they have a kid, and as we all know having a child will change a woman's body structure. She gains weight he's ok with it due to circumstance but he reminds her of his preference and ask her within 6-12 mos to get back down to size.
Two years go by and the wife is the larges she has ever been with no effort to lose the weight..... So her is the question.....
If before u get married your fiancé tells u he's not attracted to big women and all u have to do is keep the same weight he met u with. Do u get mad if 5yrs down the line he wants to separate because u put on a significant amount of weight?
My facebook friends are the greatest, here are a few of their responses.
-nope...cuz you knew he was shallow when ya got married
-Nope cuz what if I do get big, you are suppose to love me for me, so that means you only married me for my size.. Wow!!! a negative...
-so don't get fat... fat is unhealthy anyways. problem solved. you stayed thin an sexy to get him and once you got him you stop doing what you did to get him. you better continue to do what you were doing to keep him. Women quit showing men your representatives just to get them. (yes this works both ways) Many relationships fail because people forget to put forth the effort you did in the beginning.
-Hell yea u get mad! That's the problem with ppl these days...they don't honor their vows! It says for richer or poorer, sickness and health, in good times and in bad til death do u part... her gaining weight may be that bad time...he is supposed to stick with his wife... that's like leaving him just cause he lost his job! He can find a new job just like she can lose weight!
-there's a big difference between gaining weight and just being lazy and u gain the weight!!! Now if anyone should be mad it should be the man
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