I had to write this while it was fresh so excuse the possible typos and misspellings.

 Just read a post about the whats "expected" from a female when she visits a mans house she recently met for the first time and weather or not she is expected to give it up if there is mutual attraction.

Now the way my mind thinks I ask questions and need a little more detail. Questions like how did they meet? What type of environment were they in? what are the conversations like? And whats the purpose for coming to the house in the first place?

There were talks about safety, not wanting to falling into temptation and  fear of having the guy look at you differently and become disinterested if you didn't do what was "expected."

so here is my take on it..... 1) If I'm avoiding visiting a man I like for fear of temptation, then that shows lack of self control on my part. Before anything goes down a conversation should be had before hand of what the two of us are looking for. If sex is one of them then a sexual health conversation is needed.
2) Safety is a valid concern but most of the time our gut tells us ahead of time who is crazy and red flags are waiving before the exchange of numbers has happened. These signs are usually over looked  due to the type of clothes he's wearing, money he's spending or slick talk that's coming out of his mouth.
If the guy is crazy and wants to hurt you he will do so on the first visit or the tenth visit.
3) if they guy becomes disinterested because you wont do what he wants or "expects" from you then guess what? He was not good for you anyway, blessing in disguise and be glad you didn't fall for it. There is nothing worse that having some one fake feelings to get what they want then stop calling or leave you wondering what happened.

This is just my opinion, but ladies value yourself. If you don't then no one else will. Its not "expected"to have sex when you visit his house, sex is a choice that should be made mutually and not feel forced.